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Background image: [link] [from one of Polish newspapers' website]

Once again, enraged after reading a so-called 'discussion' about having babies. This time being called a sin against nature, because 'in earlier times things always have been this way, that birthing and caring for babies was women's sense of life and top priority, because nature made them like that so the humankind could last through generations, so all the emotionless egoistic bitches who stand out are worthless, wasteful goats who do not contribute to the benefit of society'.

Sweet. After reading comments like that I never know whether I should laugh, cry, or get pissed. I have nothing against women who love babies and feel happy and fulfilled in the role of a mother - but I'm fucked off way beyond my 'regular' border of being fucked off by all those hens, that claim, that if they have a pack of three kids and literally pee on their thighs out of delight over the toothless drooling pie-holes, then it HAS TO mean that EVERY other woman has no other dreams like that. The fact that they don't see anything beyond the color of poop, first teeth and 'the most magnificent baby smile of all', does not mean that everyone around also have to make babies, because THEY claim that it's so amazing. For me, for several women I know personally and hundreds of them around the net THIS IS NOT AMAZING. So stay out of our lives and ways of thinking. If you want, then keep on sitting in your world of baby food and napkins and marvel, does someone forbid you? Why do you keep pressing those kids into everyone else's wombs so much, because this is beyond my understanding - do you regret that someone lives their own life, while you walk around in circles between baby talcs, poops, and Gerber foods?
Really. Some retarded mommy hens seem to have squeezed out their brain along with the placenta after all these pregnancies and births.

To clear everything and repeat it loudly - I AM NOT CLAIMING THAT ALL NEWBORNS SHOULD BE SHOT AWAY. I have NOTHING against children and their mothers. NOTHING. If you want, if you like, then birth away, raise and be happy. What I DETEST, are all the aggressive hens that shove down everyones' throats their only and right [in their opinion] way to live and would love to set up an obligatory impregnation for all the women that reached the age of 20. Sin against nature MY ASS. Code it into your baby food-filled heads, that the fact, that YOU fullfill yourselves by cleaning snot noses DOES NOT MEAN that EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ON THE EARTH wants nothing else but birth and act like a servant. Some of you behave like all the women were broodbunnies, that, if only a male gets nearby, are obliged to reproduce and reproduce and reproduce, because you think this is the way things should be. As I said, I have nothing against normal mothers - but I would tear to pieces those that state the shit I mentioned multiple times and insult all girls stating being childfree by choice. Because in 98% of cases WE, CHILDFREE ONES, are getting insulted and attacked first, by those who want to make everyone around 'happy' by force - make yourself a baby, because babies are sweet, beacuse I have one and I say so... :sarcasticclap:
AAAAND, according to the 'loneliness at the old age' thing - you can never be sure of anything in your life. Including the man your little con baby will grow into. And whether they won't kick your fucking ass and give you the finger after you reach 60.


From imnotsorry.com:
"-Why are you so selfish as to deny a child life?
-Isn’t it selfish to have a child to carry on a family name? To “patch up” a failing relationship? To have “someone that’ll love me no matter what”? Because you’re a certain age and all your friends have babies and you feel left out? To attempt to get a child of the “correct” sex (“we have a boy, now let’s try for a girl!”)? To perpetuate genes? To prove that you’re a woman who can “have it all”? To give one’s nagging parents a grandchild? To “prove your love”? It’s very difficult to justify an addition to the six billion-plus people on this planet without the use of the word “I.” Look at the millions of dollars that are poured into fertility treatments. How sad it is that adoption has become a “last resort” because people have been brainwashed into believing that somehow parenthood doesn’t count unless the child is “your own.” If that’s not selfish, we don’t know what is. We humans have inordinately high opinions of ourselves, controlling the population of “lesser” species but insisting that every human fetus ever conceived be born “just because” it’s human. We’re already seeing the effects of too many humans on this planet. If children are our future, as the pundits are so fond of saying, they’re really going to hate us when they grow up.
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Call me a sin against nature, I'll just repeat I'm as proud of being one as ever. Oh, and I'll do MUCH more to the society if I dedicate myself to doing science.

This stamp is mostly for my own, personal use. But if you want to use it too, feel free to do so.
I'll probably get flamed if I disable comments. But I won't do it. I'm kinda curious now.


Also, this is WIN: [link] [Corinne Maier part]

Dealing with the Ursula Hirschkorn arguments:
1. Having a baby introduces you to the joys of elasticated waists and big pants.
It depends on what do you call joy.

2. Mums who have a girl, can indulge their inner princess and dress her up in fairy wings and tutus.
If you want, your dog also can be dressed up all fancy. Not to mention a teddy bear.

3. When you have a baby, you fall in love all over again, without being unfaithful or needing to shave your legs.
Only a mother could get an idea of gaining pleasure of being tired and unkempt. They say that the family is full at last, when the baby shows up. Yeah, full not only because of the baby, but also because of the lover of the poor husband, whose wife is so nonchalant about her appearance.

4. No matter how rough you look, your children always think you are beautiful (at least until they are teenagers).
Yeah. Until they're teenagers. Let's stick with that.

5. Toy shops are no longer off-limits, but stopping your husband from buying Scalectric for your week-old baby can still pose a problem.
I don't need an excuse to spend hours in a toy store. If I ever want to buy myself a coloring book, I'll do so and won't give a damn even if people find out it's for me.

6. You can admit the perfect date is on your sofa with a tub of ice-cream, now that the cost of babysitting has put paid to a wild social life.
Repeat of paragraph 3 - not caring about your look, making a fat, not-quite-clean whale out of yourself really isn't the perfect recipe for happiness. The kid won't notice that, alright. But everyone else, with the partner on the lead, will. No doubt about it.

7. Pregnancy is a guilt-free excuse to gorge on chocolate.
So is PMS-ing!

8. Cooking for children reacquaints you with fish fingers and peas, which just never make it on to the table at grown-up parties.
If you consider FOOD as the argument FOR having a pack of kids, pregnancy, labor and hours of sleepless nights and frustration, then our conversation is over thank you very much.

9. Even if they put a stop to a wild sex life, you will never be short of a kiss or cuddle with children around.
I prefer one concious smile from an adult person dear to me, way over uncontrolled explosions of joy and tenderness from a few-year-old.

10. You have the chance to put right everything your parents did wrong - and in the process give your children plenty of fodder to work on with their own offspring.
What if you appreciate your parents too late? Or you'll see all the shit they fucked up even clearer?


EDIT added on November 1st, 2010: I just went over all the comments and my answers below this stamp. The 'baby' matter makes me swear quite a lot, don't you think? :lmao:
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#8: Cooking for children reacquaints you with fish fingers and peas, which just never make it on to the table at grown-up parties.

If you consider FOOD as the argument FOR having a pack of kids, pregnancy, labor and hours of sleepless nights and frustration, then our conversation is over thank you very much.


That one made me laugh right out loud 😂😂😂😂😂😂

"...then our conversation is over thank you very much."


Ugh seriously tho.

I'm one such woman who DOES NOT WANT KIDS

Or to BE A MOTHER

For good reason:


I have experienced Childhood Trauma.

I even have FASD (Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder)

But my mom truly DID NOT KNOW she was pregnant with me;

Legit went to the doctor believing she had food poisoning.

Once she was informed,

She stopped drinking thankfully.


Says I was the best thing that ever happened to her,

Which makes me feel blessed. ❤


Still,

I've seen the crazier, less-than-perfect side of life,

At an early age.

I say of myself nowadays:

"I've been an adult since I was 4".


I have soooooooooooooooooooooo much work to do

Just to heal myself

And unlearn lies and trauma's overall effects on me

From the past;

I DON'T WANT to bring a child into this mess

If I can't even be that devoted to them,

Their needs,

Their welbeing

And happiness,

Plus teaching them Life's Lessons.


I also have sensory issues.

Drooling and poop is VERY LIKELY to make me puke.

I can't even handle dealing with DOG DOODOO or KITTY LITTERBOXES.


I believe it is my calling to be an Artist-Writer

Specializing in the Fantasy Genre.

My characters are my "children" hahaha;

They are "real" and "alive" to me,

Like the Barbie doll to the child.


There's a reason I like Fiction

Over Non-Fiction;

I don't need anyone telling me

"They're not real",

Thank you very much. :3

Way to kill the rainbows and wonderfuls of Life,

"They're not real"-person!


I live for whimsical!


So anyhoo,

My characters can be as lovey-dovey as they want!!!

I don't think any of them want children tho!

It's more about loving each other

Than it is manifesting their "love"

In a child.


Love can be as simple as knowing

You have each other's back,

You each understand the Trauma you've been thru

Cuz you've worked TOGETHER to overcome your individual, separate traumas,

Just enjoying each other's company.


Do you really need a child to "verify" that?

I thought Children were Humans;

Not pieces of paper

To confirm things

One way or another.


Stuff like what you're addressing in your description,

KathyKnodoff,

Bring the swearwords outta me, too.


Me: I don't wanna get married or have kids.


Someone else who doesn't get it: Oh you might change your mind!


Me: You don't fucking get it. If I'm not actually ready to step up to the plate to be a mother, think of what HELL I'll be putting the kiddo thru if they know deep down inside, I didn't actually want them in the first place, and I'm just doing this thing to get idiots off my back; a sense of obligation more than cheerful willingness. Is it Joy and Bliss for both of us, if BOTH OF US as Mother and Child, really wish we weren't in this situation in the first place? "I regret you exist" "I regret I exist". You foolishly tell me I "might change my mind"; I wisely realize, I Might Not. Where do you expect me to get the income or the guy to make this realistic? By what magic do you think I'll suddenly switch and ADORE this so-called "ideal"?


I fucking hate being invalidated with the "You might change your mind!" card.


Just why?

WHY?

Do you need me to "change my mind"

And embrace this?


I'm happy with my child-free normal.

Why is it not okay with you?


Is this 2021?

Or is this 1021 AD?


There's not enough resources as it is

For the children who exist right now

Bouncing around from Foster home to Foster Home

Before they wind up homeless

On the streets

Utterly screwed

Once they're 18,

If never having someone be devoted to them and their needs

While they were under 18

Hasn't been cruel agony enough.


Our planet is DYING

From having 7 billion humans

Or more

On it,

We don't have money or natural resources

In abundance enough seemingly

To support every single human,

Child or adult

That exists right now;


Don't you know that Triage is having to happen in some places

Due to the ongoing Pandemic,

From what I've heard?


Nobody wants to help the children who already exist

As orphans and adoption candidates.

But EVERYONE

Wants FRESH CHILDREN to come into the world yet,

Somehow????


What happens if YOU die,

And your OWN CHILD

Becomes the orphan

Nobody else is willing to help

And devote time to

To give them the best shot at life

They possibly can have

As adults?


The insanity of ALL OF THIS

Enrages me at times.


Long comment again;

Thank you for a second time

For giving me things to think about ^.^